So not posted as much, been kinda off

trying to grasp life as it is, accept things,learn how to navigate the body I was given to work with, the mind i was given to use. Learning about me, the syndroms, disorders, whatever you want to call them, learning of them and so learning of me. What makes me tick, or fall down, what makes me walk, run, sleep, eat, fall down!
no really i have found the last few months more focus on me, learning all the new things I have learned I have. Getting answers to many things, understanding why things have happened my whole life, and trying to accept it all. Its not been easy, I cant even say I have accepted it all, but I am trying. I am trying to find positives, ways to cope with out loosing myself more, loosing more things I love to do. Like for instance I LOVE to take kids to the park. We have not done much the past few summers in parks due to my not feeling up to it, so now I have thrown a blanket and pillow in van, they stay 24/7 when we go anywhere, when I feel a nap coming on we find a park, no matter where you are theres a park near by! So we go to the park, older kids play with younger kids, I nap near by. If needed i am around, I get to rest, watch them enjoy life and so I am enjoying life as well! No clue how we will work it come winter! but when its warm this is the plan from now on! We have also started joking about cataplexy, and narcolepsy and all the weird things I do due to it. Makes it lighter. I have read and found good people with the same things, and shared some funny stories with kids, letting them see the funny side and also other peoples explanations of how it feels, that sound like me, lets them learn more and it helps. I am not only tree huggin hippy momma I am also narco momma now! I am trying to find ways to handle it in public, it happens more and more, happens that way. Ialso discover- and all my family reading this will enjoy this all growing up how many times was I on crutches, fall down get hurt, trip on nothing, drop things, always a clutz right! well guess what I am NOT a CLUTZ! I have cataplexy! LOL  thought it was funny when I realized that I am not a clutz its cat attacks! I think Jolie I still have to take blame for sparklers and scars, cant blame that one on Cat attack! Sorry bout that still!
and you know how sleepy I was as a teen? always falling asleep when I shouldnt? Yup That was N there, everyone thought I was depressed or lazy didnt want to go to school, nope it was narcolepsy. It amazes me while I learn. So now with my new knowledge I am trying to save what i can, learn to roll with the flow, I have always done that well but this has messed with my head. So now I get to start moving forward, and learn how to make it work for me. I know it can be done. I have a few things happening,I will tell you more later, not just yet. I am still open for business, its been slow and on back burner, soon will catch up. I am going to focus more on Nutritional Healing. So many things can get better by eating right. And right is different for everyone! Weight, moods, pain, diabetes, heart, all kinds of things. There isnt an ailment that cant be helped in some way with nutrition, foods, herbs, they do so much. The do a body good!
I have done so much learning recently its unreal.
I have learned lot lately, harsh words said in frenzy, retaliation, sleep, fear, anger, doubt, confusion only hurt. Always think before you speak, especially if its someone you love in your life, you never know when your words cant be fixed no matter what you say. When what you say is the thing that makes it so a person will never talk to you again without always thinking theres a motive, even if it starts out an accident, always calm down, think clear, get your facts, say it clear, make sure its clear, because you can loose those closest to you, I had that experience recently, it is something I will forever be sad for and miss, wish I could fix, know I cant, if i could i would in a heart beat. So think first, dont answer the phone when sleeping, and if its heated cool off and pick up later before damage is done. then maybe you wont be sorry
 I know I am sorry, more than anyone knows or will know unfortunately wish I could send hugs in the mail! LIKE HARRY POTTER THE REAMING THOSE BOYS GET BY LETTER ONLY A HUG BY LETTER WOULDNT IT BE AWESOME!  I would send lots!
till later
        

Love this pic and my disappearing pics

I love this picture! It always makes me think. Also I had not noticed my pictures are not showing anymore until pointed out to me today. So I have looked into why, photobucket changed some things and I guess it messed them all up. I will redo pics to put on here again. If there are any pics that you would like to see specifically again let me know so I can make sure to get them back up!
Is anyone watching the Winter Olympics? We have no TV here so I am missing them! First time in 16 years! I am going to try to fix it today so I can watch. We usually do a Unit for school on Olympics, but they snuck up on me this year, we may do a mini unit anyway- if I can find a way to watch some of the events! I love them! Oh also soon our home number will be changing! We are going to drop the line we have for a main number and use a different number. I will use my skype #, mom has one set up also, so those and cell will be main. This drops bills a significant amount. So if you do not have the numbers email me and I will get the 2 numbers to you. I am not shutting the other off yet, making sure I have it all set and working first.
Oh ya I met someone who ownes a store who will be carrying my product! It opens many doors for me! I am excited! I will be able to go to a few Renaissance Fairs and other festivals if it works out right! I am also gearing up to start selling at the Farmers Market and other places soon!
With The Narcolepsy and other issues I have I have been trying to find a schedule that works. I think we have it figured out on how to go about that finally! Hopefully it works, if it does it will make things easier for us all! I am also using Natural methods for the Narcolepsy, and I see Pain doc this week, requesting he remove my patch. I think I will do better with out it, my pain may get worse but it will open things for me to use more Natural methods for that as well. I managed for 15 years, I would like to get back to that again if possible, at the least I would like less pain meds and more Herbal control.
I have a few goals set- one specific I want to be able to walk 2 miles by April for the Autism Walk in Wichita!
I want to get back to working out daily- for at least 45 minutes a combo of Tai Chi, TTAP, and walking. Prefer over an hour but min of 45 min. No date set yet for this, trying to figure that out.
I want to run again, I miss it so much. So This is a 2 part
1st I want to be able to run again
2nd I want to run either a 5K, 10K or Marathon. I know it will take a long time to hit any of them. I have not yet set a goal date for this. I need to break it down to mini goals working to the biggie. I will let ya'll know when I have that done, and probably track progress here as well!
I have several E books and units, and courses available to purchase for kids, adults, home schoolers, individuals, groups, with my assistance- taught by me distance learning, and not. If interested in finding out more email me. I can sell as E Books, or print and 3 hole punch and mail to you. Prices vary. Eventually I will be able to bind them. 
Prices range from around $3.00 and up, if I ship it you pay shipping also. I charge actual cost nothing extra. If its a class I am staying involved in, teaching, leading the cost increases a little. If you do them as a group the cost can be split by members.
I am offering more consultations. With a big focus in Nutrition. I know many people think of nutrition and think of what they are eating, think they have a good balanced diet, or they think its horrid. This goes beyond the normal eat this food group so many times a day. I look at individuals, possible allergies, reactions, and so much more. With proper diet, nutrition, herbs and others our bodies can sometimes heal from a lot. If not heal at least improve! Reactions from foods are not always obvious. I have a son, Sir N who gets Horrid crack, bleed, eczema. When we finally figured out a cause- Dyes! If he eats or drinks food, candy or drinks with dyes he breaks out. Then I noticed attitude changes also. No dye no eczema and less attitude, dye eczema and more attitude! Lots of things happen that way! When I look at nutrition I also look at life style, drinks, sleep, exercise, and more. Possible vitamin and mineral needs, lots goes into it!
I have a flat rate and if you need I also have a payment plan. Depending on what you want. I have a main eval, I also have an ongoing Nutritional Healing thats a monthly payment, and I work with you for an unlimited time, to help on a long term basis. This is the most effective way, but not necessary. Email me if you want to know more either my personal email  or business email 

Next a few sites I am using these days to track things. I am tracking my pain, energy, all my symptoms and progress. patientslikeme
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Also updating some info on http://aspiesrule.blogspot.com/
More links, information will be on there soon.
I also now have diagnostic criteria to work with you or for your personal use.


LOTS of sites to read books online, down load books all free! Lots of books, all kinds, fiction, non fiction, research, religious, school, novels, and more. I love these sites and use them a lot!

http://www.bookrix.com/index.html?meldung=noauthor

http://www.abebooks.com/

http://www.gutenberg.org/wiki/Main_Page

http://onlinebooks.library.upenn.edu/

http://www.archive.org/

http://www.mainlesson.com/

http://www.ccel.org/

http://www.classicauthors.net/

http://www.bookrix.com/index.html?meldung=noauthor

http://www.learner.org/

http://www.thehomeschoolmom.com/schoolroom/onlinebooks.php  list of several sites with books

http://www.amblesideonline.org/library.shtml   

http://www2.lib.virginia.edu/etext/index.html      Quran http://virgo.lib.virginia.edu/uhtbin/cgisirsi/x/0/0/5

http://etext.lib.virginia.edu/collections/languages/    same site different way to search http://etext.virginia.edu/toc/modeng/public/GlaJury.html

http://lib.virginia.edu/digital/collections/

Have a great day!

need thoughts and input please

Opinions please! I am setting up a site for women! It will be to help ladies who need to return to work for whatever reason, weather it is work at home or outside the home, or start a business. I have helped many on my own, I want to put it out there for more to get the info I also have the opportunity to offer hosting for websites. I want to offer it at a very reasonable price to women who want to start an online business. I need a name! So here is where you all come in I need suggestions I need it short because if you buy hosting through me without your own domain it will have my site at the end. I am thinking I will abbreviate the name for that. So far suggestions have been:

 Helping women Help Themselves 

 Ladies Run your life 

 Let life help you work or 

Support family from home or 

Stay at home mom=work at home mom,

 sahm=wahm

 FSFH - financially stable from home 

Family finances from home- FFFH

Stay at home~work at home~play at home 

Stay play work at home or

 swp@homemom

 None of these really hit it for me, so need ideas. I really want to gear it to helping women stay home to earn money so they can be with their kids still. Help!  Need ideas for web site name!

Winner gets their choice of~~~~~~~~

Gift Basket from my business or 1 free naturopathic/nutritional consultation or 3 months free hosting or 25% off hosting for as long as you get it from me! or 25% off any of the following I offer logo design, some help with site design- mainly pictures and stuff, banners, advertising products, cards, business cards, post cards and more, things that could be used as fillers. Any way you can pick from any of the above if your suggestion is picked!

Just to answer a few questions about business

So both my sites were down and when came back most of the info was gone! So I have help and am working hard to get them back up and running. In the mean time if anyone needs a service or product email me at ladyjae@essencethrutheages.com I am hoping to have them completed soon. You can go to Renaissance of Natural Healing now, Its not complete but it is up.
I am still filling orders and providing service. If you want to know more contact me. I can let you know more about services, cost, products whatever your interested in knowing.
For those that have asked to know more about my business I have 2. One is all natural products, soaps, cleaners, shampoo, hair spray and much more. There are natural healing products, lotions, creams and rubs for aches and pains, cuts, bites, burns, oatmeal baths, herbal baths, bath salts, and my own special bath mix like nothing you ever had! I have gift packs so much more.
If you are in need of something and dont see it listed, or if its before my site is up let me know I may be able to custom make for you. I do a lot of that. Let me know your needs and wants I may be able to help. I make more than I have listed.

My 2nd business is Natural Healing. I use a variety of methods. My focus in the beginning is Nutritional Healing, much more than diet and what you eat. I can work with clients far away due to phones, IM, email, web cam! If its something hands on you want, reflexology or something you need to be near but otherwise you can be away and I can help. I offer different packages and payment options. I specialize in Pregnancies, Nursing moms, Families, Special Needs like Autism, Aspergers, ADHD, Anxiety Disorders, Depression, Pain control and pain causing illness, and much more. I offer family packages, individual and couples. I have a variety of offers.
I have low costs because I want all to get care when they need it. I do not want money to keep a person from seeking help. I have payment arrangements also. And unlike other places if you make payments I do not tack on a lot extra, I charge a small fee for each payment, aprox $5.00 each payment to cover the cost of each payment and paper work for me.
I do not furnish supplements and other stuff. If its something I sell on www.essencethrutheages.com you can get it from me, other wise I will give you my recomendations and you will need to purchase separately. I can give you places to buy, or I can purchase for you through my suppliers and sell it to you at my cost. I do get many discounts. So you would save money that way. Its up to each client. There are many things I make and sell on Essence Thru The Ages, some thats not on the site. So my clients should always ask if they are interested in buying from me, other wise you will need to go else where
Why do I do it that way? Well I do not want the 2 business's ran together, or for clients to feel I am pushing My product on them, or my customers to feel I am pushing them into being a client. So they are 2 business's, ran separate. www.renaissanceofnaturalhealing.com for Natural Healing.

I also have a promotional deal going. Any one thats interested can take part just email me
If you want to take part heres what we do
I send you flyers for one or both business, along with business cards, I put a code on then that is unique to every one doing it. You leave them all over. Keep them with you and leave them every where you go, if you talk to someone you think may be interested give them one. For every sale made due to your flyer you get your choice, money, discount on service or product, or save it and get free service or product. So if your interested in this let me know as well. I am working on sample packs to sell, that you will be able to purchase for a low cost. If interested in 1 let me know.

Busy Busy Busy

Yes Busy is what we are! School is going for the kids. We are still trying to get settled into routine that will work for us. The kids have a full load so far. We are going to do a 4 day schedule instead of 5. We have always preferred it that way. Last year we did not do it that way and it was harder. So we are going to 4 this year. I am back working. Still recovering from surgery but feeling up to working some, plus I cant pay bills if I am not working. So I am working. I am in school also. I am learning a lot. My hobby I have had for so long making personal care products- shampoo, hair care, body, face, muscle rubs, massage oils, creams, salves, house hold cleaners and all that has grown into a business. I am still working on the web site. Hope to finish soon. I wanted it completed already but its hard to get it done. I have had a few orders! I am going to a show next Saturday, a friend has a booth selling stuff. I will be there trying to sell stuff and get the word out. I am trying to spread the word. I am making everyone I know an offer. If you refer someone to my site and they either purchase product or I see them as for a client as a healer I will either give a discount to the referring person or a portion of what I make. So if anyone is interested let me know. I am giving website info to people and to those who want paper I am sending brochures to them to have out. The Healer part is a different web site than the product part. Its not as far along as the other. As I do my schooling seeing clients is part of learning. So I am spreading the word on that also. Setting up a site and doing lots of praying! The awesome part about being a Natural Healer is that so much can be done by phone, IM, web cam, email or in person. I cant do hands on if your not in front of me but I can help a lot in other ways. My main focus at this time is Nutritional Healing. I have learned much about healing through nutrition. And also Typing- Temperaments. Interesting stuff.
We have some new additions to the family! 4 adorable chicks!!!! They are so cute. I will snap pics soon. So add to the chaos and mess in my home from 10 people living it, 4 chicks!
I am going to be teaching Boo Home Study Seminary this year. We start this week! Scary and intimidating and I will learn a lot from it. I did not know until Wednesday its a Stake Calling, I will be set apart tomorrow. I am glad for that. I will so need that extra Blessing to help me with it.
Its late I have to be up early tomorrow. I will post again soon, possibly tomorrow. When I do I will be posting links to the web sites. If anyone is interested in helping spread the word let me know, and if your interested in either purchasing or the healing part let me know as well.

working hard on business and web sites

Ok guys I am working hard, want them up and going this week. I have lots of interest, people asking so its time to expand. They are not completed yet. I would like some thoughts, ideas, opinions, whatever you can throw my way! here are 2 links let me know what you think

Lady Jae your Guide

Lady Jae's Essence through the ages

howdy all

Hello all its about to be another new week. My surgery is set for the 14Th of August. 24 hour stay then home. 4 weeks to recover. I wish it were done and over, but this gives me time to get kids ready and things around the house. I am focusing on school as much as possible. I start training for a new job tomorrow. Its a min of 18 hours a week, hope it works out or at least helps until I can find better. While I have been looking I am studying a lot. I have a lot to go before I am done, but as I finish each course I can put it to work, and as I study I need people to work with for practice. So I have been thinking a lot about how to go about getting clients. I think the great big world of Internet will come in handy. But that leads me to setting up web sites and stuff i am not to handy with. trying to figure out a good way to get started with out it costing me. So I am going to be playing around some with some sites, see what I come up with. But I need a name! i am coming up with nothing. So I am coming here to you, my loyal readers! HELP! When done I will be a naturopathic healer with a variety of degrees and Masters in:
Herbalism
Nutrition
Iridology
Reflexology
Homeopathy
Aromatherapy
I think my main focus will be women and children's health, Nutrition for all, herbs aromatherapy, homeopathy follow with reflexology as a tool as well as the Iridology. Not sure how all will fall into place yet. I do know I want my main focus to be on women, pregnant included(especially) children and families. I can do it with the nutrition 1st, followed with whatever their needs are. a variety of what I learn or 1 or 2 things only. This is something that can be done in person, or through email, phone or snail mail. Well obviously Iridology would require you here as well as reflexology.

I am already working on the Nutrition. I have quit a bit done. I am learning a lot that could help many. I cant wait to use it full time. I need ideas to spread word, market (cheap while I make it work) a name to run under, what would draw someones attention to my business? I am horrid at this stuff. So a name is # 1 important. any brilliant ideas out there?
Health through nutrition and Herbs?
Health through herbs
health by food n herbs
Let Nature in with Jae as your guide Nutritional consultations and then add each degree as I get it

Let nature in consultation services focus natural health in women,children and family health
Herbalism
Nutrition
Iridology
Reflexology
Homeopathy
Aromatherapy
Dorky?
HELP!!!!!!! and opinions. If your not feeling good, want a natural approach and flipping through phone book, or on the internet what would catch your eye. Or are feeling good but need guidance or to stay healthy whatever you want to consult about what will catch your attention?

mmmmm dinner! Fruit! and more flowers!

so Baby E wants mac n cheese, YUCK! so we get mac n cheese and fruit salad. this fruit salad has lots
5 cans fruit cocktail
1 large can peaches
1 large can pears
1 frozen bag 3 berry=raspberry,blueberry,blackberry
1 cup fresh ground flax seed
craisins
coconut
yogurt
vanilla
Cinnamon
vanilla
cloves
ginger
and I cant remember what other spice Loo decided it needed. But it is one delicious fruit salad
also I have 2 Rose of Sharon trees they are blooming!!!!!!!!! BEAUTIFUL! I will snap pics this week for yawl's(is that hick enuff fer ya?) and post them. Garden is doing good. My corn is popping up pretty good! And squash. Not sure I have any tomato left. The birds may have eaten them, I cant remember what was planted where, so it will be a surprise, and now I am afraid to weed, it may not be a weed. The year I pulled all the carrots thinking they were weeds keeps going through my mind! I do not want a repeat!
I am transferring all posts from the old blog so I don't loose them over here, so if you start seeing posts that make no sense for the timing that's why. They will be new here. Be a walk down memory lane!
I found garlic in the yard growing today! MMMMMMMMM you know how I am, picked it and ate it raw right there! I did not eat the whole thing but part, so good. I love garlic! I have so much stuff growing around the yard, I AM GOING TO HAVE TO INVEST IN BETTER HERB IDENTIFYNG BOOKS THAN WHAT I HAVE. I CANT FIGURE OUT WHAT ANYTHING IS. I AM WAITING ON MY TEACHER TO HELP IDENTIFY ONE THING. oops there goes the caps again, sorry. To lazy to go back n fix it!
I am working. May not be after the 3rd. I am working on school, thinking I will try to study more while not working if I end up job hunting. Hope I don't. I have already looked at a couple other companies.
I am really enjoying learning. Right now I am just studying pretty basic stuff, nutritional healing. I have not learned anything I did not know, but have been reminded of many things I have forgotten. The class even takes a religious view, not any 1 view, but 2. It is interesting to see the similarities, and how following the belief leads to suck a healthy diet, a better way to care for ones body. I had not realized other religions had such strong views on diet and everything. I know the WOW for me as an LDS person. But the Koran has reference, the Bible has more reference than I knew. I know we use it also, but I did not know how much is in it about diet, eating and caring for the body. How herbs are here for us to heal and medicinal reasons and stuff. Its interesting. I am enjoying that its also reinforcing my religious view on diet, the W O W, care of the body, herbs place in our life.

I also got results on chubby's tests today. The enema and x ray show no abnormalities beyond the damage done by the chronic constipation and impaction. Massive stretching, may or may not go back like it should eventually. Only time will tell. The blood tests for celiac say negative. They did all kinds of tests for it, I was lost when she went over it. The nurse is all I talked to. I have questions for the doc so she will be calling me tomorrow. If its not an abnormality or Celiac I want to know what it is! We are going on a GF diet for a min of 1 month to see if it does anything. I have learned that the blood tests do not always come back accurate, and you can react to gluten with out it being celiac also. So we will all change diet. I have to wait till I can go shopping and buy for it for a month. So it will start next week. Many of us have the symptoms of celiacs. I am really wondering about me and a couple other kids. So we will see. The worst that happens will be we do it, no changes. We will know for sure.
I am going to try to work out a 1 month menu, breakfast, lunch and dinner. At the end of the month we will look at everyone and see how we are. I know if any one of us needs the GF diet we all have to pretty much do it, its to hard to have foods in the house that basically poison you and not eat them, to hard to cook separate meals. I wont do it.
Chubby still is dairy free. He will have to stay that way indefinitely. I will know tomorrow if I can make yogurt from coconut milk for him. I have the stuff, and its made the same as I make the other yogurt, but a coconut tastes I guess. Sounds yummy actually! So if Doc agrees that's how I will make his yogurt. We saw the new Ped today. This is the one that saw him in the ER and got it so he could see the specialist. I like her for the most part, some things I am unsure on but over all I like her. She is concerned about the lack of calcium due to no dairy and wants him taking calcium. I how ever am not sure than just giving him a pill is the best way to cover the need. So I am looking through school material, and considering asking my teacher her thoughts, also going into herbalist tomorrow and see what she says and has. There has to be another way. I know some teas have the vitamins and minerals we need, we can get them all through herbal teas, I am wondering if there is one that will give him his calcium.
so now you have my rambling thoughts. Remember as you read over the next while if things don't make sense its due to my bringing posts from the old blog over here. I am going to start at its beginning and work through. I may not bring them all, I am not sure. There are some very hard times, sensitive, emotional writings on the old blog. So if you get confused and wonder what is going on just drop me a note, give me a call and ask. I do not know how long it will take me to get it all done, or the easiest way to do it. I think I can bring them over and keep them private, I thought about that so I don't mess with the flow here, but then people wont be able to read and I know several people look through for reference and things in their life's. So I just don't know
anyways love y'all
I'll snap pics this week
oh and Nana will be back tomorrow, and boo is gone to a week long training at camp to learn to work it next year! I am so proud of him for that! He gets home Friday and then leaves early Monday for a week of scout camp! When I say early I mean ewwwwwwwwwwwwww make me cry early, I have to drive an hour there and he has to be there at I believe it was somewhere between 3 or 4 am! WAAAAAAA. He may find somewhere to sleep over so I do not have to make the trip that time in the morning. I am thinking I hope that's what happens.
Jae

sick baby girl

My Baby E is sick! I dont think its to serious but she is miserable. I dont know about other moms but I know how I feel when one of my kids is sick. For some reason it brings out a more sensitive side of me. I think I take a different approach than many. I try to go more natural. Soar throat- they get garlic honey. They love it, it sooths the throat and the garlic help fight any bacteria in there, and it does it fast. Then out comes the Eucalyptus oil, mis it with some olive oil, and depending on whats on hand, today its Deliverance oil. Rub it on the chest, neck, back and most important the bottoms of the feet.so she has has several good massages tonight as I work the oil into her tiny feet, and back and chest. A few drops of the herbal sinus drops I have for the nose. Her nose is draining down her throat and gagging her. The drops will clear that right up. And a little baby Motrin. She is asleep again, on my bed. Hope she sleeps better for what time is left to sleep. We have been up off and on all night.
I know lots of other moms do it different ways, and thats ok. We each have our methods of treating and caring for out babies when they are ill. I have done lots of reading, have lots of good friends who have studied, A couple master herbalists, a holistic doc, and aromatherapists. So I have lots of good knowledgable people to help. And if I feel like thats not enough, not doing the job for whatever reason we can always go to the pediatrician.
Recently I and a few close friends were accused of not having a testimony of the Gospel due to using "alternative medicine" Boy did that get me going, my worst side ended up going. I was told its magic, and many other things. Trying to explain that no its not, herbs were put here for the use of man by God got me nowhere. This person did not want to listen.But in the end he is not worth the stress, or arguing, lowering myself to his standards. I know what I believe, I also know many times the Lord guided me to use more natural approach. I am not against medical doctors, I think it all has its place. Preventive care can go far for keeping the doc away, for keeping a person busy!
Well my baby is asleep now, I am going to go lay with her and catch a few zzzz's while I can lol its 5:32 AM, wont be much sleep. Later I'll update on my doctor app yesterday.